ALLOW FOR DIFFERENT
DO YOU ALLOW FOR CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE….or ARE YOU CONSTANTLY & CONSISTENTLY REPEATING THE OLD STORY?
Change takes place with in your thinking first, then the idea bubbles into your mind and eventually after hours and effort of talking it, it will settle into your cells and you become the embodiment of the story.
One word can change your story. AND one word can change the story you see and share about others. Changing the wording applies tolerance, love & hope. Changing the wording shifts the entire energy of how you see, and perhaps how others are seen. The wording will shift how YOU FEEL about the person and or your self.
My uncle is a drunk. – (And yet, he has been clean and sober for 25 years and you are still telling that story. )
My uncle is a dry & sober alcoholic. He worked hard and has done well.
My wife left me. ( 20 years ago.)
My ex wife left me because she needed to search for her own happiness. I hope she found it.
My child struggles in school.
My child has yet to find a place of being comfortable in school. I have faith they will. We stay informed with their teachers and support them to feel empowered and have confidence. It is not always a bad thing to be out of the box.
ALLOWING OURSELVES TO CHANGE DIRECTION, FOCUS, WHAT WE ARE ENGAGED WITH WILL CHANGE OUR ENTIRE EXPERIENCE.
We cannot tell the story we DO NOT want and expect change. We keep the story alive and we give a story life by what we speak, pay attention to and engage with.
Choose consciously your words. Take the sacred pause and as my mother always said; ‘think before you speak’! Ask yourself, if I say that, what am I giving life to?
I send you love, Deborah
Deborah Evans Hogan@DeborahEvansHo4 – Twitter